You’ve met a girl, fallen in love, and taken her to meet your parents. You think she is the sweetest, most wonderful girl in the world – but your parents can’t stand her! Your mother tells you in no uncertain terms that she’s not the girl for you. You’re really hurt, you can’t believe it, you are torn between the girl you love and your family. This is the hardest part of relationship. It’s easier to apply for any personal loans than to make a choice. However, you must always be careful when applying for any personal loans.
Though personal loans may rescue you in an hour of need, but not this time. Money may not be the solution for this kind of problem. It’s not a new story by any means. But what can you do?
First, think back over the first meeting your girlfriend had with your family. Did something go wrong, or somehow did your girlfriend make the wrong impression without meaning to? Maybe your parents arrived at your home just as you were heading off to a party, and that dress she was wearing! It was a “Wow!” for you, but a “No way, no how!” for your mom. If you think you got off to a bad start, then talk to your mother and ask if she would meet your girlfriend again, and give her another chance.
You should also talk to your girlfriend. She will probably be hurt, but if she loves you, then she will want your parents to like her for your sake.
It may be that there was nothing wrong with that first meeting, it was just a clash of personalities. Remember, that to your mother, you are still her little boy, and no-one is good enough for you. Talk to your mother, explain how much you love her and your father, and that you respect them, but also be firm, this is the woman you love and you want everyone to get along.
Given time and goodwill on all sides, these initial antagonistic feelings may well just go away. And way day you’ll wake up to find your mother and your girlfriend ganging up together against you!